Creators Asked, Buyers Answered

This is the continuation of the resource Buyers Perspective: Physical Panty Content – You Asked, and the Buyers Answered Pt 1.

Via multiple subreddits such as r/creators_spicy_tea, r/fetishhaven, r/fetishmarketsocial, and within private creator only spaces like the Creator Resource Chats Discord server I asked y’all what questions you have that you could ask a buyer directly.Well I took those questions, and I did just that. I gathered a small handful of physical content buyers with a wide range of experience and preferences and I asked them the questions you had. I figured today I would sit down and write out and summarize their answers for everyone!

This installatiion of the resource is heavily focused on logistics and the sample group of buyers preferences around them. Having an idea of the ‘general buyers preference’ (if there is such thing) can help us strategize our sales plan, and better satisfy our clients.

Assuming this resource is helpful, we hope to again partner with r/FetishBuyersCommunity to be able to ask these and more questions to a wider pool of respondents. All respondents who participated in this resource will stay anonymous. And creators spicy tea, and all creators in general would like to extend a huge thank you to them for their participation and their help! These questions got really damn personal so the length y’all went to help us understand better is seen and appreciated!

So what we are going to do is just look at the questions one by one and the responses one by one so that y’all can get the most in-depth answers possible!

Buyers Responses

How important is shipping time?

This is incredibly important to know and keep in mind as a panties scent will fade with time. I have found that vacuum sealing my panties tend to really help prolong the scent.

“Not longer than 2 weeks and its golden“

” Semi-important. I’d hope to get the panties within 5 business days of wear.“

” Timing is important, speed is not.”

“I’m in a pretty lucky location, where almost anything that is shipped to me will arrive in 4 days time. So I am comfortable ordering from anyone within the main continental US. But, knowing someone is close to you is 100% an extra appeal. Knowing that you can receive items in 2/3 days basically guaranteed adds some extra appeal when planing orders. That being said…this is why I tend to avoid international sellers. I have had rotten luck with shipping times when it comes to sellers outside of the US. And that will absolutely affect the quality and strength of the scent on the pair. Basically, anything over 5 days to arrive…chances are I’m not going to bother with it. Even if there is the risk of it…it’s something that I am going to avoid.“

” Standard shipping drives me nuts. But I don’t want to pay for overnighting, so I deal with it. I used to get them in a couple days through standard shipping. Now it seems like it’s a week.“

” Shipping time usually comes into play when working with international sellers on my end. Due to longer waits and customs, I usually do longer wears with those sellers as a bit of scent is lost when longer travel. I’m usually very lenient on start times and shipping for wears.“

Do you prefer a wet or dry pack?

The responses to this question actually surprised me. I had always assumed a wet pack would be the overall preference, though it seems to not be!

“Dry pack”

“A wet off the body pair doesn’t compare to a dry pack. I am fortunate to have found someone local who is comfortable dropping off in a descrete location.”

” In the abscence of a fresh pair, dry packs are better if the panties are being shipped. When I have had wet pairs shipped, the scent turned rancid and was not pleasurable.”

” Dry, I’ll remoisten when I receive them. Particularly in hot months.”

” Dry packing is always the safest way to ship. But I will ask for them to be packed wet on occasion. If I know that I will receive the package in no more than 3 days, then it will at times be a risk that I am willing to take, and I take full responsibility if anything happens to the pair and they don’t arrive in good condition due to the fact that I had them packed wet. Another big thing to think about when having items packed wet, is the season/temp. If it is going to be extra hot/humid…its best to avoid shipping wet. Late fall to early spring are better/safer options when shipping wet.”

” Wet because if they come quality enough and they are still a bit wet that is so hot. For my purposes, dry pack, I do a lot of sweaty wears and have found that unless a seller is in my state. Wet packing sometimes results in more ammonia or stronger undesirable scents dude to the length of time is was sitting under wet, dark conditions and very little air flow.”

Do you prefer creamy (ovulating/masturbation), wet (squirt/pee), or dry panties (regular day wear)?

This is very highly likely going to come down to just plain preference of the buyer. So it’s always important to establish what the client is looking for in this specific area.

“Dry”

“creamy”

“Creamy”

“I avoid wet (pee/squirt), as that is not a scent that appeals to me. Dried out panties is fine…but if I’m getting a pair that is just plain dry, considering how long they are worn when I place an order…that would also not be something that I would enjoy. Creamy pairs are definitely what I enjoy the most.”

” I prefer regular wear with cum. I have had a creator accidentally get a little pee on a pair of panties and surprisingly, it was a little sexy. As for full on pee and squirt, probably not. Ovulation, I find increases a woman’s scent, and it’s not always good, so I tend to not buy ovulation panties.”

” The creamier the better, as messy as the seller is comfortable with. I usually go with workouts, no wipes, and self Play add ons. So I’m not stranger to messy, creamy and satisfying wears. it’s rare that I do a dry wear outside than a pre-worn.”

Do gusset shots help compel you to buy? If not, what does?

Gusset shots are something I have wondered about as well! It seems the general concesus is they are definitely helpful.

“Absolutely! Give you an idea what to expect. I’ve recieved panties that have made me wonder if they were even worn.”

“They don’t because that isn’t going to always be the result. I prefer a great attitude and some form of light interaction during the wear.”

“Gusset shots alone will not compel me to buy, but it absolutely does help. Getting to see how the gusset looks at different points during a wear can be a good guide on what you can expect when you order. That being said…there are things that should be avoided. Like, if you are extremely creamy during ovulation…do not exclusively post images of those gusset shots if that is not something that you can produce at all times, as you are setting expectations that you cannot meet. And along those lines…do not try and fake it. You are going to fool a lot of window shoppers…people just looking for the images. Experienced buyers will be able to see when things look off…and we are not afraid to reach out to other sellers and have them confirm our suspicions as well. Be open and honest with how your gussets look at all times during the month, and how they look after different lengths of wear. A fun idea that I have brought up with a few sellers is the idea of selling a gusset diary. If a buyer wants to know what your gusset looks like over time…sell them a gusset diary, and time it when you have orders that cover multiple days. You get some extra income while you are already wearing, and you can show off how your gusset builds up and potentially lead to additional wear orders.”

“I like to see that the panties are free of stains, so yes”

“It absolutely does, it definitely shows me what I can expect and allows buyers to better decide if that it is in fact a seller they would like to work with. Some guys like light markings while others heavy. Gusts shots at every sexy and amazing, and definitely something buyers pay attention to. “

What kind of scent do you like in a pair? Light/Medium/Strong?

It seems like at minimum a medium scent is preferred across the board. That is, at least for this sample of consumers.

“Medium”

“Medium.”

” Medium. Plenty of scent without blowing me away.”

“In terms of strength, I enjoy a Medium to Strong scent. Light scent doesn’t really do it for me. But beyond that, I can enjoy almost any kind of variety of scent…so long as it is clean and healthy. But sweet, earthy, spicy, citrus, musk…I can absolutely enjoy it all.”

“Medium to strong”

“I’m very much in the medium to strong scent, also depends on the seller. Some sellers have a very strong scent, so i change the length of wear based on past experiences.I’ve done 3-5day wears in the past, and they have been very treasured on my end. Light scent is fine, if you’ve worked with a particular seller before and their scent was a bit overpowering. Lights scent is fine on pre-worns as. Outside of that medium is usually my low end. “

What is your ‘general’ or ‘base’ panty wear request?

Knowing a general idea of a base order will immensely help us plan, and make predictions in our panty sales. This will of course be very personalized per client so it is still important to ask every client exactly what they are going to want in every order.

“Wear it daily work out in it make it smell like you”

“One day with a custom video of the seller playing with themselves in the panty. If its a seller with a light scent, i do an extra day.”

“2 days, masturbation or stuffing, workout”

” Based on my preferences, my base wear is 3 day minimum, with at least 1 masturbation, usually more, and anal rubbing during the play session. Beyond that, I will chat with the sellers, let them know what I enjoy, and see if they make any other suggestions. I will also often get add ons like workouts (earlier in the wear, so the sweat can work it’s way into the pair and additional scent can be layered on top) and no showers. I avoid add ons like no wipes, both front and back as I do not enjoy either of those scents, and I also do not do full stuffing. I will try a gusset stuffing from time to time…but it has honestly been a while. And I tend to go with thongs, as they are the best for zone 3, but I will also go with cheekies as well.

“2 days”

” I usually go with a 48hr wear and either a workout or play session add ons depending on the seller and their comfort level. Material and style also factor in as some styles aren’t the best for wears. If I do panty stuffing, I usually try to stick to 24hrs as the scent in zone 1 and 2 will be strong.“

Do you enjoy pictures of wear throughout the day?

Proof of wear pictures are a standard practice in most panty sales.

“Yes“

“Not throughout the day, maybe one at the start of wear and one of the gusset at the end of wear“

” Absolutely, it’s a big validator for the wear and a good part of the interaction.“

” They are nice to get, but throughout the day is not something that has to be provided…or can very much be an add on. At least one picture per day as proof of wear is something that should be provided.“

” At least one for proof i would like more at random times for further proof and to keep the excitement and more importantly the communication flowing”

” Yes, like I can emphasize enough how awesome that is, I’m a huge sucker for surprises as well. Two of my favorite sellers to work with send me updates and pics throughout the entire process. Not to say that a seller sending them before or after the wear arrives is bad. But know that pictures through the day is other level amazing to me.“

Does your sellers looks/body matter to you?

I was genuinely shocked seeing that the answers here were pretty split. I had been under the assumption that this would be a crucial factor for everyone, but am incredibly excited to see it is slightly less important.

“No”

“Yes,”

“Yes, I think we all have a type. I veer from my type here and there slightly but not far.”

“Very much so. There needs to be that initial appeal/attraction. But, that doesn’t mean that I need to see face or full nudity. And, what I find attractive can be quite varied…all sorts of shapes, sizes, tones, features, ages…there is not a specific type that I like, I’m an enjoyer of a wide variety of women.”

“Yes if I am not attracted to the person I don’t want your panties and I want to see your face too”

“Not necessarily, we all have preferences, but I’m lenient and have worked with lovely sellers of all shapes, sizes and background. I’m a huge fan of who you are day to day, and thats why I’m reaching out. I just want you to enjoy the wear and have as much fun as possible with the wear.“

What’s your favorite underwear type (thong, boyshorts, fullback, etc.)?

It looks like thongs and cheekies are the main winners here!

“Thongs“

“Cheeky or wider thong.“

“Thongs have become my go to, but I also enjoy a good cheekie. And I have absolutely gotten great pairs of fullbacks and boyshorts as well. Some of them require a little more work/effort on the sellers part to really get them fully coated in all locations…more or less, you might have to force a wedgie on yourself in order to really get all zones covered. But if it is something you are comfortable with doing, that can provide a lot more material to catch all of your lovely essence.“

” Thongs and cheeky“

” Ooooooh, thongs of most most materials and colors, and fullbacks I’m a sucker for sheer of any color, it’s just so sexy and elegant.“

Is there a specific fabric that maintains scent for longer.?

This was the question I personally contributed. I have always wondered and guessed at cotton. Seems as if I was relatively correct.

“I have found cotton to keep the scent longer.”

” For scent I prefer modal or cotton fabrics”

” I am a big believer in the blended poly/nylon/elastane fabrics. While cotton can be very effective, it by nature is meant to be breathable, so it is designed to let some of the scent and discharge to dissipate. The blended fabrics do a much better job of holding all of that scent and preserving it. You still want to make sure that there is a cotton gusset on the panties, as the cotton will absorb it well, but the blended fabric will keep it from dissipating.”

” In my opinion cotton”

” Yes, synthetic or nylon type materials definitely hold scents longer than say cotton.”

” When properly stored, you’ll have awesome fresh pair for a very long time.“

Is there anything else you would like creators or sellers to know? Anything not asked here?

We asked so incredibly much through this resource but the buying member of the Creators Spicy Tea Team mentioned that an open, catchall final question would be helpful for anything we missed.

“I think a little friendliness does a long way. An emoji here and there would be nice! Not saying flirt, but there’s times you just feel like another order. Or you order a video and it doesnt have any emotions in it. You just start feeling like another dollar for that seller, once I get the sense of that, I usually dont return.”

” Make sure you thoroughly wash all new pairs you get to remove that new/plastic/chemical scent on pairs.

Avoid scented detergents, I have had many a pair where the detergent completely overpowered any scent from the seller.

Avoid using scented lotion/soaps in that region during wears. Just like detergents, if you use something with a very strong scent, that will work it’s way into the panties and will mask your natural scent.

Avoid perfumes…like in general during wears. The scent is so strong and overpowering. If it gets close to your panties, it will completely cover your scent.

Be conscious of how sweaty you get during workouts. I’ve had panites packed right after a heavy workout, and the sweat completely washed out the entire pair. Sweat heavy workouts are great early in a wear so they can really soak into and get fully absorbed by the pair. Things like yoga and less intense workouts are fine later on in the wear, they allow the body to warm up and add that natural scent, but you aren’t risking getting the pair completely soaked.

Variety is always good. Have plenty of options, from styles to materials to prints. Buyers like all sorts of things, so it’s nice to have options.

Lace…lace heavy pairs look fantastic…absolutely suck for holding scent. Mixing in some lace pairs is fun to keep that variety, and you will have some buyers that will get those, but mostly for the views/content. Know that lace heavy pairs are best for just that, content.

Don’t be afraid to post/advertise older, well loved pairs. While they are not for everyone, some buyers do enjoy knowing that you had a pair for a long time and they have seen a lot of adventures. Stains, holes, fraying…those can still sell. Some of us like to provide a nice retirement home for the pairs that have put in a lot of time and effort.

Menu’s and drawers…please have these posted on your profile. And be open about your do’s and dont’s.

Don’t be afraid to have your limits. If you are not comfortable wearing longer than 2 days, that is completely reasonable. You do not need to make exceptions or concessions for anyone. If that means that we probably wont be a good fit…then that is what it is. There are plenty of other buyers/sellers out there for each of us.”

” I think a fair price is 35 to 45 for one proof pic one day wear cum in them and shipping. Shipping should allways be included in the price. Proof of wear pics are a must. Don’t get mad if I ask if you’re STD/STI free it is for my safty. Please don’t be offended if I ask about your menstrual cycle, i do try my hardest to explain myself. Try to remember, we’re all human. We all have bills and mortgages and families to take care of.

There’s an acceptable fetish tax, and there’s an unacceptable fetish taxing. Ie. 200 for a pair of panties no add-ons and no shipping. You may think it’s weird. Somebody else may think it’s hot. Try to keep an open mind. Both creator and buyer if you’re uncomfortable the answer is no and no means no. Safety is very important. Trying to find a great solution for everybody.Don’t automatically go to the band people list. And buyers when giving a review don’t do it while you’re mad.

Be honest but fair”

” Our collaborations have produced a lifetime of memories of not holding back, taking a chance and embracing something you enjoy no matter what others may think.

I owe all the lovely sellers I’ve worked with across all platforms more than they could ever imagine.

Although some may see it as just a sock wear or panty wear, that’s just simply not the case with me.

It has been a therapeutic experience and lesson for me to enjoy life as much as I can. To take more risks, it’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time and one day I decided to throw caution to the wind and reach out for orders.

Up to this point it very much has been a life changing and wonderful experience, there has been ups and downs.

But I’ve felt more liberated, confident, and comfortable with my interest, and preferences.

I don’t shy away as much from what I like, from what I want out of life and personal relationships ; for that there’s no way I could ever repay all the other lovely sellers I’ve worked with.

So thank you so much for everything, eternally grateful to you all.”

Final Thoughts

Thank you a million times over from the buying members of the community who contributed to this resource and to every creator who contributed with a question! We hope that this could have helped answer some burning questions and hope that it starts some conversation across the community!

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