We have been seeing more of a crossover of content creation and in person full service sex work. There are very many important things that you must know before going in. There are safety precautions that must be taken, there are more optimal ways to be advertising, you need to know the laws in your area, a safety plan in case of arrest, and so much more. Finding all of these resources may be a hurdle that stops somebody from researching and learning before they start. So, the creators spicy tea team decided it was critically important to get a full service and in person sex workers resource directory up!
I tried to fill this directory with resources surrounding every aspect of full service sex work from mental health and boundaries, to SEO and screenings. If you are aware of other resources that should be included in this directory, please reach out to the team at team@creatorsspicytea.co
Legal disclaimer: creators spicy tea is located in a area where full service sex work is not legal, and we use stripe as a payment processor which prohibits sex work. As such, creators spicy tea must state that we do not encourage, nor engage in full service sex work.
That being said the founder started in sex work in the bowl years ago with no education and no preparation prior to switching to content creation. Shockingly enough not researching was detrimental. We do encourage and we want to help facilitate everyone stay safe in full service sex work. Full service workers and online creators have quite a bit of separation between them, but we are all one community and we are all responsible for protecting each other.
What Constitutes Full Service/In Person Sex Work
In-person full-service sex work is consensual, adult, in-person labor where a client compensates a worker for services in which may be erotic or non-erotic, with or without genital contact, with the specific activities, boundaries, time, and compensation negotiated in advance. It is distinct from remote services like camming or sexting, and it is structured around consent, screening, safety planning, and clear terms.
The Full Service Sex Workers Resource Directory
Full Service/In Person Sex Work Laws to Know
This is going to entirely depend on where you are located and where you are working. It is very important that you know the laws of where you are conducting your services and where your business is based.
Prostitution Laws by State (US)
NSWP- Sex work laws by country
- Note: just because your state or general region may permit something, does not mean your county or more local area does. Be certain to look into country, state, county, and city laws.
Online Communities for Full Service Workers
The Red Light District (Discord)
Resources By Location
Local USA Resources – r/Heauxs
National USA Resources– r/Heauxs
Organizations for Full Service Workers
Sex workers project legal services
External Resource Compilations
The Lawyer List – list of sex worker-friendly criminal defense attorneys
Getting Started as a Full Service Sex Worker
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ
Sex Workers’ Workbook ($WE@&R!)
Quick & Dirty Sex Worker Safety Toolkit
Black & Pink, Sex Worker Liberation Project Toolkit
Gender Specific Resources
Trans
Male
How to get started as a male sex worker – Oz Bigdownunder
Frequently Asked Questions for male SB’s looking to get into the lifestyle (from an actual gay SD)
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ
- Header: Is there any market for male escorts?
- Header: Is there anything I should know that’s specific to male escorts?
Anonymity
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ – Header: How can I protect my identity?
How to protect your anonymity as a sex worker
Remain Anonymous and Safe Online – Though initially written for online creators, still contains crucial information to keep in mind for everybody’s trying to stay anonymous online
How-To: Remove Your Coordinates From Photos
Safety & Screening
Screening
Safety, Vetting, Background Checks and Screening
General Safety
Technical Resources for Sex Workers
Watch out for these online romance scammers!
How to be safe from agency scams
Safety dating tips when touring a city
Safety tips on touring the world as a travel escort
- Header: Sex Worker Resources (mostly U.S.)
Detecting Hidden Trackers Using Your Smartphone
Physical/Sexual Health
Safety: Why You Should Double-Check That S.T.I. Test
Legal Safety
PSA: “Donations” and “Roses” Don’t Protect You Legally—Here’s What Actually Helps
Turn Off Face ID on Your Phone
There’s No Such Thing as a ‘Safe’ Escort Ad
Boundaries, Mental & Emotional Health
BOUNDARY Sheet Cheat – Enough with getting screwed over ladies!
Emotional boundaries for sustainable sex work
Pricing/Rates
Rates & Pricing
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ
- Heading: How much should I charge?
Finance Management
What’s your escort investment plan?
Marketing/Directories
Marketing
13 simple and effective marketing moves for every escort
Directories
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ
- Header: Which directories should I advertise on?
Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories
Website
General & Set Up
Should I have my own website? What’s a website offering ME?
How-to Get Started as a Sexworker FAQ
- Header: Should I make my own website?
- Header: How Do I make My Own Website?
SEO for Sex Workers: Full Service or In Person
Pre-built WordPress website template and SEO guide – u/madametoska
Blogging
Turn your Social Media Posts into Blog Content!
Where to share your blog:
Client Management
General
How to be DISCREET as a provider?
Social Cues and how to “READ” your clients!
What do men want in an escort?
For Fetish & Kink Providers
Consent & Power: SSC vs. RACK Explained!
Service Specific
Pro-Dom/Domme
Pro Domming: a quick-start guide.
Mastering Sub Drop: A Comprehensive Guide
Sugaring
Sugardating OpSec: the basics in sugardating safety
Some Possible Tips for New SBs
SEALING THE DEAL/GETTING THE MONEY
Some Possible Tips for New Sugar Babies (Someone Else’s Old Post: Edited)
Is It A Scam? A Comprehensive Checklist for New SBs
Advice for New SBs—Questions To Ask Yourself
Glossary: What are common words and acronyms?
Who owes US taxes on sugar payments?
How do I find a sugar mama? Gay sugar daddy? SD for a transgender person?
- Why SA Sucks (But Is Still Better Than All Alternatives)
- Allowance Master Thread – r/sugarlifestyleforum
BDSM/Fetish/Kink
A BDSM guide for providers. How to include BDSM play into your service list!
- This is a really great short guide! In my opinion the only thing that was left out was within the section labeled stages of offering BDSM Services as a provider.
- It does not matter how unsexy it might feel, you must discuss your clients boundaries and limits and you must discuss your boundaries and limits. Go in knowing what you can do and what you cannot do and go in with your client knowing the same. Protect yourself and protect your peace
The vast majority of resources within this directory are not owned, nor were they created by creators spicy tea. The entire team thanks every single person who shared their knowledge with other sex workers. All resources are directly linked to the original source. Original authors maintain all copyrights.
If your resource or writing was used and you would like it removed, we will absolutely do so and respect that. Please reach out to the team at team@creatorsspicytea.co
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